Marrying someone who doesn’t take their deen seriously is DANGEROUS.
And no way you’re going to change them if they won’t change for the sake of Allah in the first place. If they decide to change for you then it’s not for the sake of Allah which is even worse.
(Marrying Someone Who Doesn’t Take Their Deen Seriously)
The author of Youth and Spouse Selection says, “The person who does not have religion, does not have anything.”
When a man came to the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) to seek guidance for selecting a spouse, he (peace be upon him) said, “It is binding upon you to have a religious spouse.”
Knowing the human weakness for beauty and wealth, the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) has forewarned, “A man who marries a woman for the sake of her wealth, Allah leaves him in his own condition, and one who marries her (only) for her beauty, will find in her (things) which he dislikes (unpleasing manners) and Allah will gather up all these things for one who marries her for the sake of her faith (religiousness).”
If you want a household that’s based on the Quran Wa Sunnah
Full of barakah, rizq, righteousness and protection seek the one who Allah (subhana wa taala) is pleased with if not that house will be full of trials since the rights of Allah are not obeyed. The person you’re marrying should be praying for years and very serious about their deen. Don’t take risk by rushing to marry without not knowing the truth about that person unless you don’t care then that’s on you whatever happens after. The deen is what maintains our sanity, family values and marriage especially if taken serious for the sake of pleasing Allah. Imagine both spouses sleeping past fajr or not guarding the times of salah, not remembering Allah and not reciting the Quran.
A house where Allah is not remembered is a house where SHAYTAN does what he wills.
Don’t try to be hero thinking you can change someone who wouldn’t change for the sake of Allah. If deen and good character are not your top priority then you truly don’t care how your marriage goes.
Nowadays people get married for the vibes and to post on social media not realizing there is great responsibility.
Those who don’t care about deen and good character as long as the person has money then they will realize all that don’t mean nothing when their marriage become mental unrest. Marry the 1 who their deen and character satisfies you and stop worrying about rizq when Allah promised He will provide for them from His bounties and the promise of Allah is true. I know many stories where both people didn’t have nothing and few months they had everything and those were Allah fearing people.
Don’t take marriage advice from social media this places is truly wild when it comes to family matters. May Allah make us righteous first and grant us righteous spouses, marriage of full barakah, rizq, righteous offsprings and marriage that’s pleasing to Allah (subhana wa taala).
"And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Undoubtedly in these are signs for those who reflect." (AL-Quran - Surah 30 - Verse 21)
Our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
“A woman is married for four things : Her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman; or else you will be a loser.”
Sahih al-Bukhari : 5090
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